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Domestic Violence

Crisis Line
 

BF abusing son. Want to get out. Don't know how. Scared. no money.

Answer: 
Many survivors of domestic violence have limited resources and are afraid but want to leave the abusive relationship. Fortunately, WEAVE can help. Our programs include: a Safehouse, legal services, and in-person counseling. Take the next step and increase your family’s safety by talking to a counselor at our 24-hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952. The counselor will listen to you specific needs and give you support and practical information about our services. The counselor will be there to support you and help you find options. WEAVE has provided guidance and support to others so they could transition into a life without abuse. Our hope is the same for you.

How often is domestic violence perpetrated by males as opposed to females and is there a rise among female perpetraters?

Answer: 
WEAVE's counselors confirm our clients reflect national trends. Within heterosexual relationships, 90-95% of the perpetrators of domestic violence are male. We are not aware of any published study indicating an increase in the number of female perpetrators. At WEAVE we hope that every survivor of abuse will seek help and that each perpetrator is held accountable – regardless of gender. Some of the reasons for the high percentage may be based on the physical differences of the genders, greater financial earning potential of men compared to women, and the way men are socialized. The actual number of male survivors may be higher because there are factors that may stop a man from seeking help. These factors include fear of reporting to law enforcement and not knowing if services at their local domestic violence center are available to men.

im 17 i have a baby would i be able to go to a safehouse? im asking cuz of my age..

Answer: 
Unless you are an emancipated minor, you cannot access the Safehouse service. Please contact the Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for support and referrals that can help you.

My husband always verbally abuses me it almost seems like he hates me but yet refuses to get divorced. He has also hit me before

Answer: 
Verbal abuse is domestic violence and you may call the Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for support and information about WEAVE's legal services. WEAVE offers a dissolution workshop that helps with completing divorce/ legal seperation forms.

I do not want to return to my place of residence due to DV. Is there anyway to get out a lease because of DV?

Answer: 
If you have not done so to date, talking directly with your landlord about you domestic violence situation might reslove your challenge of your lease. Hopefully, they will be understanding and be able to assist you with your lease. Please call the Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for information about a Temporary Restraining Order and other legal referrals that may be helpful.

im 17 and im in a verbally abusive relationship she puts her hands on me and i dont know what to do she a she and i cant donutin

Answer: 
Verbal abusive is considered as domestic violence and nobody has the right to put their hands on you without your consent. WEAVE offers teen domestic violence counseling. I recommend you call the Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for support and more information about our services.

guy and i get verbally abused .. physcally abuse.. when i try to hold her hands she she says it hurts what can i do ???

Answer: 
Verbal abuse is a form of domestic violence and by contacting the 24-hour Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 you can gain support and information. In a healthy relationship, both partners respect each other's boundaries, including both physical and emotional boundaries.

i dont kno how to leave my boyfriend..the worst part is that hes living with me and he threated of taking our baby from me

Answer: 
Leaving an abusive boyfriend can be a difficult process, but WEAVE is here to help. WEAVE operates a Safehouse for survivors in imminent danger. In addition to the Safehouse, WEAVE's Legal Department that can assist you with filing for custody. Please contact WEAVE's Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for more information and to access these services.

My wife and I are very concerned about our daughter who we believe is in a very abusive (verbaly and mentaly) what can we do?

Answer: 
Though you can not control the choices your daughter makes, you can gain information to be supportive and also learn to set healthy boundaries with your daughter. It will be up to her to either continue to be in an abusive relationship, or choose a healthy relationship.We currently offer a weekly group called "Supporting Survivors Group" that you and your wife might benefit from attending. You may also call the Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 for additional support and information.

My husband accuses me of the abuse which he is inflicting upon me. He files Restraining Ords. w false info.

Answer: 
Please call our 24-hour Crisis Line at (916) 920-2952 to speak to a counselor to learn how WEAVE can provide you with domestic violence counseling, information and referrals. Also, WEAVE's Legal department may be able to assist you with your legal issues.
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