| Iv been beat up and hide it away for so long that he now abuses me by threats and false reports to keep me from my children! | We understand how frustrating that must be for you. Please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to talk about your situation in more detail and to go over your options. |
| my mother lives in another state, and is involved in an abusive relationship. What does she need to do to protect herself from h | There are several things your mother can do to protect herself, but it all depends on what she wants to do and on her individual situation. Please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to discuss your mother's situation and one of our Crisis Line Counselors can offer you some guidance and support. We can also give you a referral to a domestic violence agency that is closer to where your mother lives that she might be able to utilize or you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.7233. |
| husband he cheats calls me names screams at me tells me get out am i abusive to him for not taking 5 yr old daugher and leaving? | It sounds like your husband is being abusive to you, which might not be the safest place for you and your daughter. However, we do understand it can be difficult to leave. Please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to go over you situation in more detail and talk about possible options. |
| i am being screamed at, called names, husband stays out all night says, other women call him is this abuse | It sounds like you are experiencing abuse because any action done for the purpose of gaining power and control over another is considered abuse. During this time, you might want to contact our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to talk about how you're feeling and find out some of your options while receiving support. |
| I need to know if i can apply for state disablety, due to domestic violence? and post trummatic stress? | It is possible, but please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to discuss your situation in more detail and to receive appropriate referrals to help answer your questions. |
| How can I get counsling thorough you guys? I need help for myself re; always being physically and mentally abused all my life?? | It's great that you are reaching out for help. In order to get into our domestic violence counseling, you would first have to attend an orientation session. We currently hold these twice a week in two different locations. For more information, please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952. |
| Violent brother-in-law is lying to his court ordered angr mngmt.He threatened me for helping sister w/ ride to work. | If you are being threatened, you could contact law enforcement or get a restraining order for yourself if you would like. If your sister is still in an abusive situation, we can help her, depending on what she would like to do. Some of her options might be going to a safe place such as our Safehouse, getting into our counseling services, or coming up with an individual safety plan. You can encourage her to call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to talk about her situation and go over her options. You are also more than welcome to call to talk about how this is affecting you and to receive support and guidance from our Crisis Line Counselors. |
| Um, I am going on 20 years of marriage, but my husband I split up last year. I need to get out of here and relocate. Help. | We can try and help you, depending on what you would like to do. We can offer you different housing options in the Sacramento area. If you would like to relocate outside of Sacramento, we can give you referrals to outside agencies in the location you desire to move to, as well as referrals that can possibly help you get there. Feel free to contact our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952 to discuss your options in further detail and find out how WEAVE can help you. |
| i really need a place to go that is safe for my 6 yr old and myself due to controling and very abusive realationship | One option might be our Safehouse which is a safe place for women and their children to go to who are trying to escape a domestic violence relationship. For more information and access into our Safehouse or to go over your other options, you can call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952. |
| i want to leave my husband but dont have money or place to go.can weave help me pay for divorce,find a job and give me place ? | WEAVE can help you fill out the paperwork for divorce in our Dissolution Workshops. Depending on your income level, you might be able to get a fee waiver for the cost of filing the paperwork. WEAVE can also give you referrals for finding a job, as well as a place to stay. We also have a Safehouse which is for women who are in immediate danger and trying to escape an abusive relationship. For more information and to go into more detail about your options, please call our 24-Hour Crisis Line at 916.920.2952. |
